
You
2018 · TV Series
Crime
You looks like a sleek psychological thriller about modern dating, but it's actually a deeply uncomfortable mirror that forces you to confront how easily obsession can masquerade as romance. The show's greatest trick is making you complicit in behavior you know is wrong, narrated by someone who sounds reasonable until you remember what he's actually doing.
How it feels
Watching You creates a specific kind of psychological tension—you're simultaneously repelled by and drawn into the protagonist's internal logic. It feels invasive and intimate, like reading someone's private thoughts when you shouldn't. The show maintains a queasy balance between dark comedy and genuine menace that keeps you off-balance throughout.
What makes it heavy
The weight comes from how naturally the show normalizes stalking behavior through charming narration and seemingly romantic gestures. It explores digital privacy violations, manipulation, and escalating boundary crossing in ways that feel uncomfortably plausible. The psychological manipulation is more disturbing than any physical violence because of how recognizable it might feel.
Compared to shows you may know
-Dexter → Less methodical killer, more impulsive romantic obsession with social media integration
-Black Mirror → Similar tech-enabled creepiness but sustained across seasons rather than standalone episodes
-Gossip Girl → Same lead actor but inverted—instead of harmless social scheming, genuinely dangerous behavior
-Hannibal → Less artistic violence, more everyday digital-age predation
If Dexter felt like a fascinating monster, this may feel like someone you could actually meet
Worth knowing
Anyone who's experienced stalking, digital harassment, or manipulative relationships may find the protagonist's justifications particularly unsettling. The show's treatment of these behaviors as entertainment rather than horror might feel trivializing.